Taking an active role in your health can be one of the most empowering decisions you make, yet it can often feel hard to do so.

It can feel much easier to advocate for others. Whether you are speaking up for your family, your friends, or your community, there is confidence in doing so on behalf of someone else. It is hard to find that confidence for yourself, especially when navigating the healthcare system.

Self-Advocacy is essential, and requires some planning and a lot of clear communication—in preparation of a visit, during, and even after. It is about sharing your experiences honestly and staying engaged in decisions that affect your health.

Why Advocate for Yourself?

Advocating for your own health is essential because it directly impacts the quality and effectiveness of the care you receive. No one understands your body, mind, and lived experience better than you do, which makes your voice a vital part of any healthcare conversation.

By speaking up, asking questions, and sharing concerns, you reduce the risk of misunderstandings and improve the quality of your care—especially in mental health, where symptoms may not be visible. Just as importantly, self-advocacy builds confidence and reinforces that your well-being matters.

Practical Ways to Advocate for Yourself

Preparation

  1. Find a provider that feels like a good fit. Who you receive care from is your choice. Think about these questions when searching for care:
    • Does this person make me feel heard and understood?
    • Do they have the background or credentials I am looking for?
    • Do I feel comfortable asking them questions?

If it doesn’t feel like a good fit, try another! It can be exhausting, but meeting with someone who makes you feel good is essential to your health advocacy.

  1. Before your visit, create a list of symptoms, or a journal of your mental health struggles. Write down any questions you have. You can bring all of this to your visit. This not only helps you remember everything you have been working through, it helps communicate your needs directly and efficiently. Being able to confidently communicate your needs may help you feel validated, even before a visit with a provider. 

During the visit

Visits with health care professionals can feel rushed or anxiety-inducing. Know that it is your right to be seen and heard. Don’t be afraid to bring the list of questions or symptoms you prepared.

  1. Be honest about your experience when communicating your symptoms. It can be tempting to downplay symptoms or stress, but honesty leads to better support.
  2. Ask questions! You can always ask providers to clarify terms, or repeat names of medicine, or their effects.
  3. Confirm next steps right there in your visit. Writing down those next steps helps you recall them even after you have left.

After the visit

  1. Contact offices for next steps, or contact them if you don’t receive results or prescriptions within the communicated timeframe.
  2. Again: ask questions! You can always call a provider for additional clarification or if you have ongoing symptoms.
  3. Be patient but persistent. The healthcare system seems complicated, and people are busy. Acknowledge their time, but know that your time and needs matter as well.

Remember: You are an active partner in your health

In each step of your advocacy, stay engaged and ask questions. Share your perspective. Shape for yourself a healthier, more sustainable path forward.